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Mohamed Isbitah had only been at the Nuseirat refugee camp in the Gaza Strip a few days when his pregnant wife, Hadeel, suddenly went into labour.
Days after Hamas attacked Israel on 7 October 2023 and it responded with a counter- offensive in Gaza, the 37-year-old manager of a media production office in the city, sought refuge along with his partner and their four children, aged three to nine, as they tried to escape the violence that has continued unabated ever since.
Since arriving at the camp, Isbitah has stayed in touch with me as he and his family made their way to the safety of Egypt. I worked with him a few years ago when I was doing research in the Gaza Strip. This is his story, told through Facebook messenger text and voice messages, sent during the last eight months.

Losing Everything I’d Ever Worked for
We had to leave our apartment in Gaza City in October, shortly after the war began. The Israeli army sent a warning that it would bomb our house. My house was not hit in the air strikes that followed. But my father’s apartment was destroyed and the apartments of my two brothers badly damaged. Imagine this: I worked double shifts for years to get enough money to buy our apartment and build a nice home for my family. I presume there’s only rubble left now.”
Initially we stayed in a friend’s house in the Nuseirat refugee camp, some 14kms south of Gaza City, but there too we were bombed all the time. We had only been there for a few days when my pregnant wife suddenly went into labour.
It was the middle of the night, and she was screaming and begging me to take her to the hospital quickly. I tried to get her into the car, but at the time bombs were raining down everywhere, it was too dangerous
Mohamed Isbitah on his wife going into labour
We left the car and I tried to call an ambulance. That didn’t work either, I had no phone connection. My wife had to give birth on her own. Fortunately, she and the baby got through this well. Our little girl is a fighter.”

We Couldn’t Return To Gaza City – We’d be Shot by Snipers
Our daily life became more difficult each day. I kept going out to find clean water, drinking water and food for my family. But there was hardly anything left at the market and our supplies were running low. We couldn’t go back to Gaza City; the Israeli army had sealed off everything and forbidden us civilians to return. Anyone who tried was shot by Israeli snipers.
Because the Israeli ground troops were advancing from the north further south and in our direction, we fled to Zawayda in December, a town a little further south of the Nuseirat camp. From all directions you could hear the sound of bombs exploding.
Once my five-year-old daughter asked me if I knew what day it was. I told her it was probably Wednesday. She said: ‘Yes, and it’s my birthday, are you planning a party for me?’ I didn’t know what to say. I couldn’t find any candy, chocolate or anything else for her
Mohamed Isbitah on his daughter’s birthday
We were in Zawayda for about a month when the Israeli army dropped leaflets and asked us civilians to move to Rafah. We relocated at the end of January. We stayed in a camp for internally displaced people, where some relatives were already staying. Like them, we lived in a makeshift tent.
Arriving in Rafah – Then Realising we had to Flee our Homeland
The situation in Rafah is catastrophic. Hardly any aid is arriving, people are hungry and completely exhausted. There are no functioning schools, hospitals, or markets. The doctors and helpers are overwhelmed with the many wounded.
We felt trapped in Rafah. Every day we looked for drinking water. It was icy cold at first, then very hot. Food was hard to come by and completely overpriced. My children fell into a kind of shock. They couldn’t get used to having to use a hole in the ground as a toilet. They suffered from not being able to eat fruit, meat, eggs, or sweets. They were tense and nervous the whole time. We could hardly sleep at night because of the noise, the constant thumping of the air raids, the constant buzzing of the drones over our heads.
One morning my 8-year-old daughter woke up crying and said: ‘Daddy, I think there is no place for me in this world, maybe I will be in heaven soon’
Mohamed Isbitah’s daughter’s heartbreaking message
When the Israeli army stormed Al-Shifa Hospital for the second time in March, I knew we had to leave Gaza. From then on, it was only a matter of time before Israeli soldiers would capture Rafah too. In previous wars, it had never occurred to me to leave my homeland. But this war is different, it mainly affects children.
Children are killed in Gaza every day. I couldn’t sit around and wait for my children to be killed too. That’s why I decided to get myself and my family to safety
Mohamed Isbitah’s on his decision to leave his homeland
Smuggling my Family Out of Gaza to a Shadowy Existence in Egypt
My brother was already in Cairo at the time. I transferred him money so that he could pay smugglers to get us out of Gaza. I had to pay the Egyptians a total of 31,000 USD (£24,000), my last savings. The smugglers work for an agency in Cairo that specialises in getting families out of the Gaza Strip.
The smuggling was unspectacular: as soon as the agency employees had the money, they put our names on a list that was available to the border officials at the Rafah border crossing. This allowed us to cross into Egypt unhindered.
In Cairo we are trying to return to a normal life. It’s not easy. We live near the airport and every time a plane approaches my children think that an Israeli fighter jet is attacking us.
My brother has rented an apartment for us, but it’s not easy to pay for it. In Cairo there are many war refugees from Sudan and many Palestinians who, like us, have fled the Gaza Strip. They all need accommodation, and this drives up rents. Many Egyptians are very helpful, but some take advantage of the refugees’ plight and demand far too much money for food or accommodation.
We lead a shadowy existence. We cannot get a residence permit in Egypt, no official papers with which we can register with the authorities. My children can’t go to school because of this and that’s a big problem. I have to find a solution before the start of the next school year. It’s important that my children can go to school again; they have already missed too much.
It’s uncertain what will happen. The Israeli government is carrying out this massive military operation to show that it can take tough action. They’re not concerned about bringing the Israeli hostages home safe and sound or protecting the lives of Palestinian civilians.
They seem to believe that by killing Palestinian civilians they will bring Hamas to its knees. But it’s obvious that Hamas cannot be defeated in this way
Mohamed Isbitah on the Israeli Defence Force
I believe the Israeli government has also another aim in mind with the war. They know that they can’t simply drive people out of Gaza; not even the US would allow that. That’s why they are making living conditions so bad that people are leaving the Gaza Strip of their own accord. The Israeli army has turned Gaza into an uninhabitable wasteland; everything is destroyed. Anyone with children will sooner or later try to flee to another country.
We are ordinary people, and we are paying the price in this conflict. It’s been like this for years. Every time we thought that the situation in Gaza was a little more stable and calmer, a new war broke out. Our dream of a normal life was destroyed again and again. And yet: I try to believe that this terrible war will soon end. And that one day we will be able to return to our homeland.”
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